(Both abled and weird)
Two of my extended family members (but not on the same side of my family) were born without forearms—let’s call them Bjorn and Gyda (yes, I’m rewatching season 1 of Vikings at the moment, how could you tell?)
A few years ago, I was visiting Bjorn’s grandparents. For some unknowable reason, in the middle of one of our conversations, I felt the need to mention Gyda. Not that I actually knew Gyda. She’s my second cousin’s cousin—I knew of her existence through Facebook photos on his profile, but no more. I’ve never met her, or talked to her. I basically haven’t the faintest idea who she is or how she deals with her disability. And yet I mentioned her, like, “hey look, this is neither here nor there and doesn’t help anyone at all, but I know another person with the exact same condition.”
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